Are you a pre-negotiator? Or do the people you love know your deepest desires? Continue Can You Ask for What You Really Want?
Update: With the many and varied advancements (and a few backward steps), within the Gay/LGBT civil rights movement this last year, I thought, perhaps, it might be time to revisit my 1999 reflections on this important topic (already 15 years ago!). Continue What If There Were No “They?”
When do we get old enough to stop the need for a man to be “the man” in a relationship and a woman to stop trying to figure out what a woman should do in response? Continue Are We Old Enough to Drop Expectations?
In the ‘good ‘ol days’ it was easy to tell the ‘good guys’ from the ‘bad guys’ because the ‘good guys’ always wore white hats while the ‘bad guys’ always wore black ones. Continue When Good Guys Wore White Hats